Heartbroken

Crushed with sorrow or grief.

Can a broken heart be mend?

Recently, there are many articles touching on how science help people to understand more about human, especially on the physiological perspective. Counsellor, physcologist and motivator speakers are working towards science to reach out to people who need help.
Have you wonder how people who been through terrible experience has the ability to live on. It is interesting to find out how it works. I can't explain why and how using science could help but I would say being strong is the best remedy to recovery road.
A master said this in an article, all of us has a inner tool box which we could use it when we need. What does the tool box contains? It has mercy, optimistic, responsibility, aggresive, joy, honesty, trust and thanksgiving.
Currently, I am on the road of recovery and I am proud to say I am doing well now. My inner tool box help me to overcome it. The love from my family and friends allow me to gain back my confidence and feel so much in love again.
My broken heart is mend but it will never be the same anymore. I am a new meili and I look forward to my new future.

A keep coming back feeling...

Sometimes it just come and go like a wind. It allow me to immerse myself into it totally and out of it clearly when it leaves....

Feeling fortunate I

After reading the article on this year human rights campaign, I told myself that I should feel very lucky. This year campaign focus a big part on women rights, a big focus is on the stories behind the women in developing countries (middle east and etc).  

For most women becoming an adult is an eventful moment but to some women it is a fearful life journey has just started. A country culture and belief caused an inequality between men and women. Culture controlled women to allow their men feel more superior and powerful. How can this unfair treatment survive for so long? We are already in the 21st century.  If they oppose their fate and turn things the other way round, they will be consider as a disgrace to their families. No one will be proud of them even their own mother and their children. As such, some women still went on to change their fate. Their bravery, endurance and confident pull them through the difficulties.

Well, I am a woman of the 21st century and I live in a country of equality. I have a much better life here so why should I still feel not contented…

don't dwell in the past, don't dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

life journey doesn't just stop for you...

 

My little pain...

Memory had been my best enemy.
"All these while I have tried my best not to remember anything."
"Everything must be just a dream. Did the life before the breakup really exist at all? Had he ever existed? It was blurred."
I wanted to pluck out those memories that kept invading my head and my sore heart...

相遇，相知，相爱。

怎么样才算是真爱？

两个人在一起究竟是命运还是缘分呢？

是不是有缘才能相遇呢？

相遇的人不一定能相知，

相知的人不一定能相爱，

相爱的人不一定能相守。

命运让两个人遇上，但它不一定会成全两个人的命运。

或许它只是单纯的让两个人 遇上。

Sweet hereafter = 甜美的来生

... 脑袋和身体无法复原，灵魂没有回来，处于身心分离的状态。但是小夜子继续活着。随着时间过去，安静地生活和工作、怀抱感谢，她的灵魂慢慢跟上了身体。

读了这一句短文后，我告诉了自己我也一样能和小夜子一样找回自我！好好的过自己的人生！

Sunday morning!

Travel all the way to bishan in the morning to do my nails so that I can have the rest of the afternoon for other stuff.
Happy sunday Everyone!